So What is a

Christian Sex Coach?

Maybe you’ve found my page, but are still scratching your head trying to figure out what a Christian Sex Coach actually is. I don’t blame you, when I first set out to do this, I had never heard of a Sex Coach, I just knew what I was passionate about. 

Let’s break it down

Coaching

You might have heard of Life Coaches before, or maybe Nutrition Coaches, or Career Coaches. Coaching, in its simplest form, is a profession that helps you set goals, and form strategies to reach said goals. We are not therapists, we are not doctors, and we will be the first to let you know when you need to seek mental or medical professionals instead of, or in addition to us.



Sex Coaching

Sex Coaching can definitely be considered the new kid on the block. As a career field that is still defining itself, there can be HUGE variations in services and values provider to provider. Because of this, I will not be speaking for the field as a whole, I will just be defining my practice.

My Sex Coaching 

After getting to know each other, we spend time discovering where you are in your sexual journey, and where you would like to be. We set attainable goals, and I work with you through the use of practical, real-life tips, mind-body practices, thought exercises, and sex education, to reach those goals. There is no physical contact, or anything considered lewd or vulgar that goes on in our sessions.

Because we are goals based, I’m not planning on seeing you for years on end. Think of me as your training wheels. I help you get to the point where you can ride without my assistance (no pun intended). 

Of course, if you find yourself setting new goals, call me.


Examples of Goals

I want to …

Learn how to achieve orgasm

Increase my libido

Break out of a stress cycle to better enjoy intimacy

Reconnect with my sexuality after a big life change, e.g. birth, infertility, injury, menopause, deployments, loss, etc.

Learn to connect with my spouse sexually and better understand each other’s desires

Set my new marriage up for success

Prepare for my honeymoon

Learn our new “normal” for this season of life

Overcome pain with sex

Become more educated on my body

Go from ok to great

Go from great to mind blowing


Christian Sex Coaching

Last, but definitely not least, I am a CHRISTIAN Sex Coach. 

  • I believe the Bible to be the Word of God.

  • I believe in a traditional Christian sex ethic. Sex is designed for marriage, and marriage is designed to be between a man and a woman.

  • I believe that we are all sinners but can be redeemed and made new by Christ. 

We ALL have pasts, we all have baggage and burdens, that’s just a part of being human. Above any of the other practices that we will do together, I want to help you lay down your burdens, your fears, and your shame, at the feet of Christ. I want you to find your wholeness in Him, so you can thrive in your sexuality.

Frequently asked questions

  • I see women, married or single, and couples. I am not currently taking male clients on their own.

  • No. There is no physical contact, and all sessions will be very respectful. We will speak in anatomically correct terms and not vulgar language.

  • If you are a female, or a couple, then no!

    I love to help women understand their sexuality at every season of life.

    As for couples, I can make a great addition to premarital counseling, or help you navigate your boundaries, beliefs and expectations while dating.

  • Absolutely. We will work together to set personalized goals and strategies to realize them.

    If you are interested in group options then keep a look out for my upcoming workshops and miniseries.

  • Nope! If you are open to talking to me, then I would love talk to you!

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